How to Overcome Low Self-esteem

"My clan is the weakest in Manasseh, and I am the least in my family." -Gideon

Talk about low self-esteem! But that is how Gideon described himself when the angel of the Lord appeared to him (Judges 6:15).

It was understandable. In the course of that particular time Israel was in hiding. They harvested during the night under cover of darkness and in silence. They feared being over-run by their enemies who would steal their harvest and enslave some of them.

In more cost-free circumstances, harvest was carried out in the day time with singing. So it was a shame for Israel to be playing a cat and mouse game with its enemies, Israel being the mouse.

Low self-esteem. What causes it? If we take a look at Gideon's story, we can glean a few and know how to overcome them.

1. Fear. It's 1 of the 1st of mankind's emotions. Even so, be aware that fear can be both debilitating and energizing. For Gideon and his men and women it was debilitating. If we were to follow Gideon's frame of mind, we could say they had the lowest of low self-esteem.

How can fear be energizing rather? You let it motivate you and not make you cower. The angel created Gideon realize they could face fear head on and defeat it or let fear relegate them to a life of hiding. Former US President Franklin Roosevelt once said: "The only thing we have to have to fear is fear itself."

Know the cause of your fear and your alot more than half-way in conquering it. A lot more often than not, when we discover what's behind our fears, we discover they're not reason enough to
cause fear.

2. They didn't know their strength. The angel told Gideon, "Go in the strength you have..." (Judges 6:14). The angel could have added, "Not in the weaknesses YOU Think you have" (capitalization mine).

A great number of times we dwell in our weaknesses even although many of our weaknesses are mere thoughts. Dwell rather and construct on your strengths. The Apostle Peter had this to say:

"For this pretty reason, make each and every effort to add to your faith goodness and to goodness, information and to knowledge, self-control and to self-control, perseverance and to perseverance, godliness and to godliness, brotherly kindness and to brotherly kindness, enjoy. For if you possess these qualities in increasing measure, they will maintain you from being ineffective and unproductive in your information of our Lord Jesus Christ" (2 Peter 1:5-9).

Peter undoubtedly built on his strengths. From a fisherman he became 1 of the authors of the perfect-selling book of all time.

three. They weren't at peace. I'm not just talking about the conflict Gideon's folks had with their enemies, but the conflict within themselves. Gideon's questions to the angel reveal an inner conflict. He was not at peace with himself. He, along with his countrymen, was not at peace with other individuals.

The quite core of these outer and inner conflicts was that they weren't at peace with God. Thus, when Gideon knew God had a purpose for him, the Bible tells us he "built
an altar to the LORD there and called it The LORD is Peace" (Judges 6:24).

Considerably of our inner turmoil can be traced to a turmoil with God in the form of guilt, unforgiveness, bitterness and the like. Inner turmoil causes low self-esteem.

Thus, forgive your self, initial of all. Do not torture yourself with past failures or errors. Know that failures and errors are there to make you a superior and stronger person. Friedrich Nietzsche wrote, "Out of life's school of war: What does not destroy me, makes me stronger."

Forgive yourself then forgive those who've hurt you and ask forgiveness from those who've offended you. Then ask forgiveness from God. Becoming at peace with God, other people and
yourself gives you a fresh commence to building up self-esteem.